My brother recently borrowed me a copy of this audio book “The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman.

This audio book is made for married couples, and how to make marriage bonds stronger.
Basically, it’s telling us that most troubled relationships are the cause of miscommunication.
Each person has different love needs, and we have to identify which is which for us and our mate. And give the attention each person needs.
Here are the 5 Emotional Love Languages:
1. Words of Affirmation
-verbal words which are mostly compliments.
2. Quality Time
- Turn off any distraction (like TV, etc.), and give your undivided attention. Make eye contact when making conversation.
3. Gifts
- Doesn’t be expensive but it’s the thought that counts.
4. Acts of Service
- Household chores, running errands for the other person. Needs to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love.
5. Physical Touch
- Stroking the back, holding hands, kiss in the cheek, etc.
This audio book is short and very easy to understand. I didn’t have trouble listening to this while doing other things.
There are some interesting facts that it stated. It claims that based on research study, in the US, 40% of the marriages ends up in divorce, from that, 60% of the second marriages end up in divorce, and finally, 70% of the third marriages end up in divorce.
So it basically just says that you have lesser chances of success in your succeeding marriages. But as you all know, there are always exceptions.
Another interesting fact is, when a couple is on an emotional high in love, they’re blinded by reality and could not see each other’s fault. This is the stage they feel they are so perfect for each other.
Unfortunately this phase is only temporary and usually lasts for 2 years, or lasts a little longer with secret relationships.